Dating shes says shes not ready
There is a lot of details so I will try and mention everything. when i say that she usually is like "you do have a choice!!! Thanks for trying to help Alright well me and this girl really like each other but the timing is all wrong. but i am ready for a relationship when we hang out.. Look Juanton, she likes you, but it seems like you’re pushing too much for an “official” relationship and she feels SMOTHERED by it. but by making her FEEL enough ATTRACTION such that she starts asking you questions about the relationship label of “us” because she’s fantasizing about being your girlfriend. When a girl says she’s not ready for a relationship, it means she needs her feelings to GROW for you enough to make her want to make you her boyfriend.
When a girl says she’s not ready for a relationship, yet seems really into you, it can drive you crazy. your neediness and fear will send her running away. you can learn how to ramp up the attraction she feels for you and take the “relationship” to the next level. Now let me share with you a question from a guy experiencing this common problem: The girl he’s seeing said she isn’t ready for a relationship. You see, for a woman to feel attraction for you, she has to spend time away for you to sort her feelings out.
by being really nice, by treating her special, by giving her enough attention to show that you care… By doing specific behaviors that create attraction and avoiding behaviors that lower her attraction like giving her a lot of attention and over-pursuing her. Instead, here’s what you need to do: Use texting PRIMARILY to schedule meetings with her.
Too much attention will KILL the attraction and that’s the problem right now… Nothing kills the mystery like getting into long, drawn-out text conversations with a woman without scheduling a date. All that is required is that you send a few texts that eventually aim for the meetup. I just want you to always keep in mind the purpose of your communication… This brings me to the second thing you need to do …(you REALLY must avoid this mistake)… Are you the one pushing for things to get “official” and wondering what kind of relationship you’re in with her? Acting like a woman by talking too much about your feelings and pushing for an “official” relationship can lead to a very SERIOUS loss of attraction Let the girl take care of that department, alright?
I don't think it is a problem to have dates with different guys I just don't think it is not fair to keep it a secret after the third date When someone says they "aren't looking for a relationship right now" it basically the same as saying "I don't want to date you." It's a rejection, and most of the time someone is not going to change their mind about you.
She said no, and your understanding of that was completely wrong.