Dating not that into you
Always remember that men are never too busy to get what they want.
If he has already broken up with you, then avoid any kind of communication with him. I know how tempting it might be to hear from the guy who said he didn’t want you in his life anymore.
The bottom line is that if you recognize one or more of these kind of interactions, is to consider the signs that he’s just not that into you. Getting stood up, pushed to the back-burner, or ignored is not an exception, it’s the norm. He doesn’t put effort into initiating interactions or conversations. His words speak louder than his actions, and his actions don’t speak much. You are the one who is always texting first, calling first, communicating first.
The biggest issue in all relationships is, “does he like me? Well, I have to sadly inform you that he probably doesn’t.
If he made you reach the point where you question yourself whether he’s into you or not, or whether he wants to be with you, then he doesn’t like you.
I know that’s not what you want to hear or believe, and that you will always find an excuse for him even when he doesn’t have one for himself.
Wanting so badly to find love, they’ll do anything to make it happen. Two people who are putting in the same amount, and receiving even more… Two people, building, edifying, encouraging, and investing in one another.
Finding excuse after excuse; continuing to go back to a relationship- or even the hope of a relationship- that does not reflect love in any way shape or form. As hard as that may be to swallow, it’s also a message of hope. Wait for that, because anything less is not worthy of the wait. Debra Fileta is a Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life, where she writes candidly about dating, relationships, and how to find true love.
Don’t be flattered when he tells you he misses you, because he only misses you because he has chosen not to be with you every day.
A relationship in which you find yourself on an emotional roller-coaster, one day confused, one day elated, but always lacking in direction.
The interesting thing about these kind of relationships, is that it’s so easy to recognize them in the lives of others…
As a relationship expert, I can guarantee you that there are.
You just might not know what to look for, but I encourage you to keep reading and check to see if you’re in a one-way relationship.